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to love our neighbor

It all feels overwhelming sometimes, doesn’t it?  The headlines, the statistics, the almost routine mention of another capsized boat or a small group of sojourners’ bodies found dead along the border of two countries.  We Americans are generally a people of short attention spans: rocked and saddened over Aylan’s little body one day, moving on to a celebrity’s fall from grace or our football team’s poor performance the next.  This mostly steady emotional barometer towards the plight of so much of the world tends to mark the cadence of our lives; we give a nod or acknowledgment to headlines and news stories that, while they should shock us, leave us with a mostly unmoving response.  Or far worse, no response at all.  And then, we carry on.

This cannot be.  It can’t.  I am begging you, friends, to respond.

But how?  How!?  What can I do about ISIS? President Al-Assad?  The Middle East?  I hear these questions, they resound in my mind, too.  And they are valid: most of us are not in any sort of position to speak to these loaded political and governmental concerns and we will likely never be. 

But let’s not do something: let’s not, as Christ-followers, put our God on the same level as our politicians, weighing the power of each with equal belief and confidence.  That’s not even a thing.  Scripture tells the story of a God who has never once wavered in authority over all kingdoms and governments and leaders*.  Never, not one time, has he not been in charge— and this is true in every generation, every pocket of history.  It remains true today.  So that is where I start, with a clear reminder to myself that the terror of my moment in history is not un-watched by the God of all history.

The next thing we can do is know.  Stop looking away.  Read the stories, as many of them as you can.  Know that more than 12 million innocent men, women, and children have been forced from their homes in Syria.  Sit with that number for a moment, will you?  Really think about how many people that is.  Or picture your hometown, the traffic and the grocery stores and the busyness of people moving from here to there; moms doing school drop-offs and parents heading to work, meeting friends for coffee and closing business deals… and now picture it silent.  No food on the store shelves.  No cars on the streets.  No access to hospitals.  Banks are closed.  The water is shut off.  Maybe the biggest buildings are bombed out or perhaps the terrorist group has forced everyone in to hiding.  But there is nothing left of your life, and you find yourself having to answer questions like this: “do we take grandma with us as we flee or will she not make it anyway?”  That’s not really a choice; it is a life-sentence to guilt no matter how one answers it. See this in your mind, friends, because it is real for millions of our global brothers and sisters right this moment.

Once you know, allow it to hurt.  It is ok for someone else’s pain to hurt.  I would argue that it is good.  That hurting is the birthplace of compassion—the kind of compassion Jesus felt when he saw the hungry crowd**, the kind of compassion that means to “suffer with,” and the kind of compassion that makes a space in our lives for the Holy Spirit to come in and inspire.  And that is where we respond with prayer. Just prayer.  So simple, isn’t it?  Oh, but so, so powerful, and perhaps the most important work we can do,  if we truly believe in it.  I think that it gives God the honor he is due when we tell him out loud that we trust him with all of this, and that we believe in him for justice. 

When we go to scripture as our guide, we see thousands of years of men and women petitioning God for help, for answers, and for peace.  We read the greatest writer of the new testament, the Apostle Paul, offering prayers for the hearers of his letters and begging for them for himself at the same time; praying for protection (2 Thessalonians 3:2), for grace (1 Corinthians 16:23), and for clarity and boldness in his words (Ephesians 6:19-20) so that the gospel might go forward and believers would multiply.  If you are wondering how to start praying for Syria (or any number of injustices, countries, or people groups), may I humbly suggest that is a good model to begin with: protection in the face of danger, grace in the midst of chaos, clarity for those sharing the gospel and understanding for those hearing it.  We do not know how our prayers will be answered but we know that they will be heard, and most assuredly, heard by the only One who is perfect and able to answer with flawless justice, impeccable timing, and eternal truth.         

While I believe to my toes that prayer is the most important thing we can do for others, my hope is that as far as we are able, it is not the only thing we do for others.  Let’s not scoff at sacrificial giving, either.  That old Christian alliteration for stewardship applies perfectly here, because between our time, talents, and treasures we can all do something: are you a lawyer who can advocate for asylum?  A doctor or nurse who can volunteer for a few weeks with any number of refugee agencies?  A stay-at-home mom who can make room in her home for a refugee family (or an orphan, a single mom, anyone) for a few months?  I promise if you want a role in helping—with one of the statistically greatest humanitarian crises of our time, or any number of equally heart-breaking injustices— start asking questions and you will find one.  And there is also giving our money, which often feels like the easy thing but it is no small thing.  Because maybe you know someone willing to go, he just needs someone else willing to give.  Or you read about the agencies doing great work but who are sorely under resourced and you give to meet a need and help spread the gospel.   There are great people on the front lines but they are out of resources, leaving them with little capacity to help stop the hemorrhaging of the refugee crisis. Last week I read that on the Greek border refugee camps built for 500 people are housing 5000.  Put this perspective in to our world: the house we comfortably live in with 5 people would all of a sudden have 50. Wouldn’t we all feel the sting and meaning of under resourced in a moment like that?         

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I had the great privilege of speaking to the Chief Catalyst at World Vision last week, and the stories he told me after a trip to Lebanon to the refugee camp in Beirut are, in the truest sense, unbelievable.  And I mean that.  They are hard to believe.  In his words, “Utterly beyond anyone’s capacity to take it in.” It’s crowded.  Abuse is rampant.  Food and water supplies are low, a thriving black market is gaining steam.  Children are drawing pictures of their homes and remembering details like grenades scattered on the floor.  For so many of the refugees, after three years away from everything they know and no real means to an end in sight, a catastrophic loss of hope has settled in.  Truly, there are few things with more devastating consequences than that.

So what will we do?  As some of the most resourced Christians on the planet, the answer simply cannot be nothing.  And every agency on the frontlines, every humanitarian worker who has been there, every Syrian, Iraqi, Afghan, or other beautiful refugee face will beg you to not let that be the answer.  We can do hard things, friends.  But most certainly, we can do these things: Remember. Learn. Feel. Pray. Act.

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Want to do something right now?!  My talented friend Margaret has created the adorable printable in the picture above to remind us to do the simple yet profound work of praying.  It’s yours for a donation of $5, $10, $25 or $50 dollars.  If you know me at all, you know that keeping your money will never be my style, and EVERY SINGLE PENNY of proceeds from these printables is going to World Vision.  And I think we could make a teensy, tiny little dent, friends.

Print out your reminder and then do the most important work: prayer. Pray for the refugees and their loss of hope in the world to be found in Christ.  Pray for the agencies and volunteers pouring themselves out.  Pray for President Al-Assad.  Pray for President Obama.  Pray for your own ideas to grow.  Pray for a small community of friends around you to encourage your creative passions and increase your capacity to give.  Pray to feel this.  Friends, let's talk to Jesus about it all and watch him work in our hearts and in the world.  This story, and so many others riddled with the most nefarious acts humanity is possible of, are not unseen by him.  In fact I believe his heart is broken over them.  There is not a believer on the planet who has not been invited to be a part of his work in the world in some way.  We can, y'all, and we must.   

{Printables available October 28-November 6: TEN DAYS, y'all.  Get yours.  Print it.  Share it.  Pray out loud.  Let's do something cool together}

*Because donators receive a printable, donations made through Just Enough Brave are NOT considered tax-deductible.  If you would like your donation to be tax-deductible, please visit one of the organizations linked in this essay and donate straight to them.

Scripture references (worth memorizing!)
*Daniel 2:21
**Mark 6:34

bravely

Grammar gets such a bad rap, sending people back to their middle school classrooms with images of strict English teachers and red marks all over returned papers.  I will never need to know this! and when will I ever use the term subordinate clause again in my life? have rung through countless young minds as sincere teachers do their best to make them believe you will, I promise, you will need this!

I don’t know why exactly, but I believed my teachers.  And although most of my writing today makes its own rules up as I go, I return to my love for good old fashion proper grammar often.  And today, I want to tell you a little bit about the adverb.

Adverbs do just what their name implies: they add to the verb (do I need to remind you that a verb is an action word?)  Adverbs usually answer the questions such as how? or  in what way?  If you walked (verb) to lunch, how did you do so?  I walked quickly (adverb) to lunch.  You get it, yes?

I owe a great deal of inspiration to the function of the adverb, as it has inspired the latest (and my favorite!) addition to the Giving Shop: the bravely necklace.  My sweet friends and mentors at As You Wish design helped me come up with this piece, and I don’t think I could love it more because yes, it is beautiful, but more than that, it reminds me how and in what way I want to do the things God has put on my heart: be a loyal wife, a committed mama, a helpful advocate for women in the sex industry, and a consistent friend… and I want to do all those things bravely. 

What about you?

Are you fighting for your marriage…

Thinking about adoption…

Raising difficult children…

Facing infertility…

Fighting injustice…

Loving the people in your neighborhood…

Moving out into the mission field of the world…

Working toward a big dream…

Do those things bravely.  Because our families, our cities, the world needs our bravery, friends.  Spend two minutes looking at the headlines and you know it; spend two minutes in God’s word and you are inspired for it!  And “we are not of those who shrink back” (Hebrews 10:39a), so let’s not live that way.

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These sweet reminders to live, go, do bravely make the perfect gifts of encouragement to our people.  {Hey, no shame in buying one for yourself, either!}  Each necklace comes with a brand new design brave card and the short story behind the adverb bravely.  And as always, every penny of profit is given away to charity—for the next three weeks (through February 8th) , that charity is Wellspring Living.     

*If you purchase a bravely necklace this week (January 19-23), use the code BRAVELY to take 10% off your order.  The initial love and support of this piece mean more than I could ever tell you.

Live bravely, y’all. 

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Want to help spread the bravely movement?  Purchasing a necklace or the brave cards is one way, but simply sharing them on social media is another—and it is no small thing.  Use #bravely to share this post, a link to the Giving Shop, or photos of your necklaces and cards.  Remember, brave begets brave—if you be brave, I will be brave, too. 

when we all do it together
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Shayla, my talented designing friend, and I sat at Starbucks this week, talking about the Giving Shop and dreaming up ideas for what could, should, might come next.  Just a month ago, I put an idea out there in the world that I hoped would do two things: raise awareness and money for a cause I believe in with all of my heart, and encourage people to be brave.  Friends, I think both of those things are starting.  In the short four weeks that the Giving Shop has been open, we have raised enough money for two years worth of school supplies to support a young women who has gotten out of sex trafficking and is learning a new, dignifying trade.  And, there are well over a hundred brave cards out there in the world, which I pray are encouraging people in perfect, God-ordained moments, putting scripture in front of eyes that need to remember our bravery really comes from there, from God’s beautiful word.

This morning, I had the sweet privilege of sharing about bravery and the idea of the Giving Shop at a local Mom’s Morning Out group.  I was unbelievably humbled by the response and encouragement of this crew of women- it affirmed what I believe so strongly: if you will be brave, I will be brave, too.  We share so many of the same fears, but I know a brave soul lies deep in all of us, longing to live out a faith that believes in a God who is able.      

And now, we’ve got fun dreams and plans for the Giving Shop in 2015: a few changes to the current card sets, more card designs, coffee mugs, and journals (because these are a few of my favorite things).  And like always, you give twice when you buy them, as all profits will always be given away.

The thing that makes me smile and feel the most excited about all of this is that we are doing something together, something that I couldn’t do alone.  You are giving your support and it is adding up to much more than I could simply give.  You are encouraging your people and spreading bravery in ways only you can do.  This is small, this little dream, but it’s something, and I’m so grateful that in a teensy tiny way, we get to do something together. 

Brave begets brave, as Annie Downs would say.  So let’s keep spreading the brave, friends.  We’ve got kingdom work to do and a Holy Spirit all too willing and ready to do it with us.

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